- Part of a Traditional Japanese Wedding
it is true that more and more young men and women are united in
marriage on their own will through love, the practice of "Mi-ai"
is still widely observed to end in a happy married life for many.
"Mi-ai" is an interview for a man and woman with a view to
marriage, as arranged by their parents or a third party acting as a
go-between. It is proposed with due consideration to social
backgrounds and other factors of the prospective bride, bridegroom
and their families. It is not compulsory on either of the parties
concerned to accept such "Mi-ai" as a promise for
Prior to 1900's, the
practice of "mi-ai" (an arranged meeting between a man and a woman with a
view to marriage) was more a formality than an opportunity for a young man
and woman to meet and get to know each other. Today, a matchmaker may be a
family member or a friend who would arrange for an initial meeting between
the young man and woman thought to be suited for each other in marriage.
These initial meeting is usually arranged at a public place such as a
restaurant or a theatre.
In the old days when "mi-ai" was a mere formality, a young man would be
invited to the home of the young woman. If he were favourably impressed, he
would leave behind a fan to indicate his acceptance to pursue the marriage.
In the old days however, the bride-to-be had little say on the issue.
Hakama pants (skirt)
Hakama pants are a gift to the groom as part of
the Yui-no, the phase of the
traditional Japanese wedding. For a wedding they would be black, but to
emphasis the detail of the design we have shown a patterned style.
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Ancient Japanese Weddings